Fear : To face it or to run from it.

“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”

 FRANK HERBERT, DUNE

In My Opinion, F.E.A.R is Face Everything and Recover or forgets everything and run.

Like every coin has two sides, the word FEAR has the two meanings. It depends on how an individual handles it.

For me, sometimes, this small word creates so many difficulties that I can't think of a way out of them.

I still face difficulty in my life as to how to handle this small word which has very big hazards associated with it. "Fear if once chosen will always result in failure. There is only one thing that can make a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure."

I must adapt FEAR only if I can achieve resilience after it. This is the simplest way to achieve success in life.

If I face everything then it makes me feel that I am brave and after facing all the ups and downs when I recover, it gives me a motivational feeling towards my life. It gives me hope. It gives me the courage to stand up and face my problems and to keep on winning over each of it that brings me down.

At the same time a part of me just wants to forget everything and run, ignoring the reality around me and staying in my comfort zone. Sometimes I just want to hide and give in to all my fears and choose the easiest way out of difficult situations i.e. running. I don't know what others think about this but FEAR many a times remain a FEAR. It haunts me.

FEAR of losing a friend,

FEAR of career,

FEAR of change,

FEAR of getting low scores,

FEAR of facing a mob,

FEAR of taking an initiative,

FEAR of fulfilling expectations,

FEAR FEAR FEAR FEAR FEAR!!!!!!!!

My Story on Friendship day,

I was sitting here thinking

Of the words I want to say,

But they just wouldn't come out right

So I found a different way,

In 1935, the American Govt. killed a man on the 1st Saturday of the month of August.

As the news of the killing got around, the man's best friend committed suicide on the next day i.e. on Sunday. So in his memory, the 1st Sunday Of the month of August was officially declared FRIENDSHIP DAY. Imagine how beautiful and strong, the bond of their friendship was and how committed they were to it.

Strangers, when they spend time together become friends. The attachment and care between them is not measurable. Each of us in our life has many friends. Some pass by like time and some of them change our life.

Those who make an impact on our life become our best friends.

It is difficult to find loyal, trustworthy people in this fast moving world where everyone is absorbed in their own pursuits.

There are still people with a golden heart, who live on this beautiful planet.

We must respect, care, and love our true friends.

I met a stranger 4 years ago and now the present status is, a beautiful relationship between us.

Every relationship between two people is based on trust and respect.

Never doubt your loved ones, be with them when they need you.

Always see the positive side in people and try to strike a compromise, when necessary.

At last I take the opportunity to thank my friends, old and the new ones with whom I have forged a lasting bond, for being there for me in every phase of life.

TO MY BEST FRIEND:

I got a piece of paper,

And I wrote this poem for you,

But there's no way to thank you

For everything you do...

For always being nice to me

And staying by my side,

For helping fix my problems

And never leaving me behind,

For accepting my thoughts and feelings,

Though you do not understand,

For never giving up on me

And being my best friend,

For making me laugh

And letting me cry

And saying you'd miss me

If I were to die,

Everything you mean to me

You could never know

In all the ways you've changed my life

I could never show,

The way you take care of me,

You're my shining star,

And though it's so incredible,

That's just the way you are,

Before I get too mushy

It's time for me to go,

But before I leave this ink-filled page

There's one thing you should know,

As long as we are living,

No matter when or where,

If you ever need me

Just call and I'll be there,

I'll climb a thousand mountains

And swim a thousand seas

Anything to be there

Because you've been there for me….

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!